Doys have a tendency to think about by by by themselves as more assertive, more aggressive, etc., than slaves. Some believe it comes down down to a protocol expectation of males versus slaves, although these too are comparable and quite often the distinctions are incredibly discreet it’s not necessarily apparent. To elaborate regarding the protocols would simply simply take a complete other e-mail which is additionally defendant upon which protocol you suggest, which community you’re in, or have you been speaking about the protocol between simply yourself and your Dominant, or the protocol you have got along with other boys/slaves?

But, we myself have now been both boi and servant (and we generally call myself kid these days, not boi, although i quite enjoyed being a servant too), therefore the similarities are numerous. I would like to do a job that is good the Dominant that i’m serving. I do want to feel great that I do about myself and the things. I’d like my community become a far better spot not only for me personally, but also for every person. I’d like my Dominant and my community become pleased with me personally and proud to be connected beside me when I have always been together with them. I’m sure that this could appear egocentric or self serving from a submissive’s viewpoint, but for me self less portion is significantly of a crock (I do not suggest to express this is the exact exact same situation for all, nevertheless the thinking at all for me is just not something I can get ahold of) 🙂 if you didn’t feel good doing it, or got something out of it, why would you bother to do it?

A child is told what you should do. a servant does just what he is told. – Larry Burden, Avatar Los Angeles

Cruise “To be from the prowl or search for you to definitely connect with, either for intercourse or play or both. If you are cruising, you are earnestly hunting for some body. “If you’re being cruised, someone is actively thinking about you.” – servant marsha, servant to Master Jim, Overseas servant 2001 Cruise Party “A party create for the express reason for bringing together people who could be enthusiastic about starting up with some body for play or sex or both.” – servant marsha, servant to perfect Jim, Overseas servant 2001

servant marsha, Global servant 2001 and Femme leatherdyke, on Butches and Femmes:

There are numerous “flavors” of Butches and Femmes, including “Stone Butches” and “Stone Femmes” — names that identify the real method by which they engage intimately. (A rock Butch generally doesn’t wish to be moved intimately in virtually any method in which “feminizes” him — that generally speaking means no vaginal touching or penetration with no breast play. a rock Femme will not like to touch a Butch in virtually any real method in which “feminizes” him.) Some Butches — like Cougar — carry a great deal energy that is masculine these are typically more content being addressed with masculine pronouns and honorifics, such as for instance “Sir” or “Daddy.” But, it doesn’t suggest they’ve any plans to change. We Femmes usually see ourselves since the hidden members of the dyke community — we have been often tagged to be right (that make it tough to have the attention of A butch!), we quite often have already come out later on in life because we “pass” therefore well into the right world, as well as other dykes often question that individuals’re homosexual after all.

FYI, Butches and Femmes aren’t generally speaking accepted with open hands within the bigger lesbian community.

In terms of me personally, Femme is my identification and my sex. I also generally am not attracted to women unless they’re Butches while I am not at all sexually attracted to men. I will be a top Femme, but of course, perhaps perhaps not rock. (Although just before Cougar, we just dated Stone Butches therefore I interacted together with them being a Stone Femme.) I enjoy the “dance” with my Butch — just how he treats me personally with old fashioned courtesy — taking out my seat, starting doorways, assisting me personally when I step down a curb, assisting with my coating. . I enjoy the “power powerful” between us — perhaps not really a D/s dynamic, but an electric dynamic simply the exact exact exact same “Being normal and matter-of-fact about nudity stops your kids from developing an mindset of pity or disgust about the body that is human. If moms and dads are particularly secretive about their health and head to great lengths to avoid kids from ever seeing a buttock or breast, young ones will wonder what exactly is therefore uncommon, as well as alarming, about peoples nudity.” – Dr. Lee Salk “Because Jesus created it, the body that is human stay nude and uncovered and preserve intact its splendor as well as its beauty.” – Pope John Paul II