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The Fifty Shades of Grey publications have actually unleashed a wave of conventional curiosity about kinky intercourse since their arrival in 2011. The movie variation, which hit theaters on February 14, will likely trigger a 2nd surge. Nevertheless the kink community is significantly less than enthusiastic about this.

“I’m not looking towards it,” says Autumn Lokerson, a BDSM writer and self-identified submissive.

That’s because Lokerson has seen many Fifty Shades converts dive headfirst into BDSM, without using time that is much teach by themselves in regards to the elaborate guidelines, rituals, and tradition which have developed over years.

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